June 20, 2025

Music Friday: Michael Jackson’s Promise Ring Shines in ‘The Love You Save’

Welcome to Music Friday, when we spotlight songs that sparkle with jewelry, gemstones or precious metals. Today, we rewind to 1970 and revisit a classic Jackson 5 hit that features a very young Michael Jackson grappling with young love — and a not-so-loyal sweetheart — in “The Love You Save.”

Twelve-year-old Michael sings about giving a promise ring to a girl who just can’t stop chasing other boys, even as they grow up. The lyric: “When we grew up you traded / Your promise for my ring / Now just like back in grade school / You’re doin’ the same old thing.”

Released in May 1970, “The Love You Save” became the third of four consecutive No. 1 hits for The Jackson 5 that year, joining “I Want You Back,” “ABC” and “I’ll Be There.” These songs remain staples in Jackson 5 medleys and greatest-hits collections.

The song opens with a bold “Stop!” — widely believed to be a nod to “Stop! In the Name of Love” by The Supremes. That 1965 hit was also released by Motown, the label that launched The Jackson 5. Supremes frontwoman Diana Ross famously helped introduce the group to a national audience.

Interestingly, the original lyrics for “The Love You Save” were about traffic safety. Songwriters Berry Gordy Jr., Deke Richards, Freddie Perren, and Alphonso Mizell — known as The Corporation — reworked the theme into a playful warning about reckless romance. Only the title and the clever line, “Darling, look both ways before you cross me,” survived from the original.

The Jackson 5 lineup — Jackie, Tito, Jermaine, Marlon and Michael — would go on to sell more than 100 million records, with their infectious energy and family harmonies captivating audiences around the world.

And here’s a fun lyrical twist: Midway through the song, Michael names four of his rivals — Isaac, Benjii, Alexander and Christopher. But look closer: he’s referencing Isaac Newton, Benjamin Franklin, Alexander Graham Bell and Christopher Columbus. Smart and catchy.

Enjoy this vintage performance of “The Love You Save” from The Ed Sullivan Show. The lyrics are below if you’d like to sing along!

“The Love You Save”
Written by Berry Gordy Jr., Deke Richards, Freddie Perren and Alphonso Mizell. Performed by The Jackson Five.

Stop, you better save it
Stop, stop, stop, you better save it, woo
Do do do do do …

When we played tag in grade school
You wanted to be it
But chasin’ boys was just a fad,
You crossed your heart, you’d quit

When we grew up you traded
Your promise for my ring
Now just like back in grade school
You’re doin’ the same old thing

Stop, the love you save may be your own
Darlin’ take it slow
Or some day you’ll be all alone
You better stop
The love you save may be your own
Darlin’ look both ways before you cross me
You’re heading for a danger zone

I’m the one who loves you
I’m the one you need
Those other guys will put you down
as soon as they succeed

They’ll ruin your reputation
They’ll label you a flirt
The way they talk about you
They’ll turn your name to dirt, oh.

Isaac said he kissed you, beneath the apple tree
When Benji held your hand he felt electricity
When Alexander called you, he said he rang your chimes
Christopher discovered you’re way ahead of your time

Stop, the love you save may be your own
Darlin’ take it slow or some day you’ll be all alone
You better stop
The love you save may be your own
Darlin’ look both ways before you cross me
You’re headed for a danger zone

Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on…

“S” is for save it
“T” is for take it slow
“O” is for oh, no
“P” is for please, please don’t go

The love you save may be your own
Some day you may be all alone
Stop it
Save it girl
Baby, ooh
You’d better stop
The love you save may be your own
Please, please or some day, some day baby
You’ll be heading for a danger zone
(All alone)

I’m the one who loves you
I’m the one you need
Those other guys will put you down
As soon as they succeed

Ooh, stop, the love you save may be your own oh baby
You better stop it, stop it, stop it girl or someday you’ll be all alone

The way they talk about you
They’ll turn your name, turn your name
Stop, the love you save may be your own
Don’t you know, don’t you know
Some day baby you’ll be heading for a danger zone